I don't know if you guys have experienced the feeling of being left out. Well, I have. I usually do when I'm with my friends. I don't know why I find that others are more fun, interesting and talkative than I am, and hence have more friends than I do. Even my good friends seem to be happier with others. I'm not girly, not very talkative, not very smilely but I'm me! Sometimes, I even tried changing my facial expressions (I don't really smile), be more open, or should I say "girly" (yuck!). However, I just don't see results and feel that I should be myself. I hope that u can share your thoughts on how I can improve on my personality and make more friends.
P.S.: I'm quiet in school but humourous, talkative, and noisy with my brother. I get irritated easily too.
Dear..
ReplyDeleteJuz b urself... wat I see is wat I get!
Actually, U hv improved a lot already my dear..
U hv smiled more, more loving 2 ur siblings n I see tat u r more thoughtful too..
As for irritation, perhaps u use the holding the 2 hands technique, wat I learn from GKGW ,"Self-control" then u pause, see if it works, tell me in 30 days, ok?